Supper Club’s Declassified: Holiday Survival Guide
Let’s be real—the holiday season can be stressful. We get it. Whether it’s the pressure to make everything perfect or the family dynamics that come with every holiday gathering (looking at you, heated dinner debates), it’s a lot. And during an ELECTION YEAR? Buckle up
Don’t worry. We get it, and we’ve got you. To keep the holidays cheerful and the conversation flowing (without it turning into a full-blown debate), we whipped up a list of conversation starters that’ll keep the peace and maybe even spark a few laughs. Let’s get through this season together, one thoughtful chat at a time.
Lean Into Nostalgia
"What’s the most ridiculous gift you’ve ever given or received?"
"What’s a holiday memory that always makes you laugh?"
“What is the most embarrassing thing that happened to you in childhood?”
“What accomplishments are you most proud of this past year?”
"What’s the best holiday movie of all time?"
Brush Up on Your Pop Culture
"What’s the best show or movie you’ve watched this year?"
“What’s the last TV show that you binged?”
"Who would play each of us in a holiday rom-com?"
"If we could compete as a family on any game show, which one would we crush?"
Spark Some Creativity
“What new skills or hobbies would you like to learn or explore in the new year?”
"If we had to survive a zombie apocalypse together, what role would each of us play?"
“If you could travel to space, who would you want to go with?”
"If we could spend the holidays anywhere in the world, where would we go?"
Dig Into the Bucket List
"What’s one thing you really want to try in the new year?"
"What’s the best place you’ve ever visited and why?"
"If money weren’t a factor, what is a holiday experience you’d love to have?"
Overall…
Keep it lighthearted and inclusive—ask questions everyone can jump into, regardless of age.
Take a backseat in the conversation. Go get a drink. Take a gummy. You don’t need to be the show's star; sometimes, it’s better to say less.
Avoid getting too personal.
Notice your body language! You know the drill. Face the person you’re talking to; don’t cross your arms. Make eye contact. Give a nod or words of confirmation like “oh really,” “wow,” “that’s great,” “very interesting,” etc.
Use humor to diffuse any tension if the conversation starts getting too serious.
When in doubt, pivot! People love to talk about themselves, so turn your attention to one of your relatives who just got married, had a baby, or started a new job. They’re DYING for someone to ask them about it…(or leave, we don’t judge)...
